The fairy tales have definitely done a number on women.As a species we have bought and lapped up the myth of some tall dark and handsome warrior from God knows where emerging and saving us from the dragons of our own imagination.TV has turned us to become the victims of our own devices.Be it Chris Hemsworth,Patrick Dempsey or whoever the next IT boy in the entertainment scene will conjure up.Women have been brainwashed to expect these imaginary men who only exist on the silver screen to meet them and as reality dictates these men have not materialized at our command.This is usually the genesis of the dangerous chain reaction of dating the wolves in prince’s clothing,until his facade finally falls and then retreating to ‘feminist groups’ where hating men is the order of the day until the next wolf slithers into our midst again.
I feel like real men are always passed up for these sorry excuses because either they have more money or they look better or worst of all ‘you have a spark’.We need to grow up and have the courage to tear these stereotypes from our eyes so that we may find the real men.Who by the way do not need to carry you off into any sunset or kiss you in a certain way.Real men have problems and have some growing to do themselves and rescuing has become a term associated with females as if we don’t all need heroes and heroines alike.
The time to shed the youthful skin of princesses and what nots has come,we should rejoin society with a more refined view of love and men.It is a lot of work and we better get our work boots on.Love is hard and never is to be reduced to a moment,it is a long and winding road full of road kill and abrupt turns and bumps but it is by far the best infrastructure around and the only kind designed for the machinery of all humanity.
Generalizing people doesn’t work because unlike statistics humans are absolutely stochastic and don’t follow the law of large numbers,let us study our partners and philosophize them so that we may tailor our love to uniquely fit them.It is no secret that despite the similitude of persons we are all uniquely different and so should how we are approached be.
Maybe i am just tired of having the same conversation with all my friends about their love lives but it is certainly the time for us to unchain ourselves from the psychological tricks safely tucked into all the movies and series we sip up time and time again.Have the courage to free yourself from the fantasy of it all and awaken to the reality,pick the good man and quit wasting your time .Let’s get on with the rest of it because there is a lot that is yet to be done.